recently some of my friends encounter love problems..
when i c them sad i feel sad too..
i only can give suggestions after listening to wat they say..
as a inexperienced person,
my help is really very limited..
i may not encounter or c a lot of problems that u have encounter..
but i realise that most importantly is urself must be able to have a clear mind to handling all these..
once u lose control of everything, nobody can help u
whether u choose to cry, let go, curse the person, etc..
u must know as ur friends we will stand up for u..
we wont know wat really happens between both of u..
it maybe ur fault or her fault
but we only care for u..
in the end wat we all say don matter the most
is wat u think
is whether which route is best for u
if u think the person don like likes u, then let it be
if u think the person lie to u, let it be
because the person chose to treat u like that
u can be sad
but nothing can be changed, u only hurt urself
i'm not saying that crying is bad, it is also a way to vent ur sadness
but when u come to think of it
not saying about whether the person worth ur doings
but whether u wanna ur life to be like that
i used to be like this once before
when u wake up from all the nonsense u gave ur self
u realise ur life can live better without all these
my dad told me
u sad also need to live, u happy also need to live
y dont u live happily
i know it's hard
i been through all these
a lot of things u need to kan kai..
whatever u do, u must be responsible to urself..
that's all